I’m in my 50s and love being a cougar, but you wouldn’t believe the messages I get from men – my DMs are like the Wild West!
A woman in her 50s has revealed one very unexpected thing that comes with being a cougar.
Patsy Mennuti, from Fort Lauderdale, is very proud of dating younger men, and calls herself Hellacougar on TikTok.
The transformational coach and yogi, who is 52, has shared an insight into what social media is like for her.
She’s revealed that one man sent her a video of his buttocks on Snapchat to show her an ingrown hair, with the 52-year-old beauty calling her DMs ‘the Wild West.’
But Patsy can count on the support of her 263.100 followers, who keep sharing how striking the yoga enthusiast looks.
Patsy Mennuti, from Fort Lauderdale, is very proud that she is dating younger men, and calls herself Hellacougar on TikTok, where she has shared an insight on what it’s life online is like for her
Patsy admitted that a lot of her followers are curious as to what life is like when you’re a cougar in your 50s.
‘I get asked all the time: “Hellacougar, what’s it like to be a cougar out there today?”,’ she said in a recent clip.
She went on to share one interaction she felt reflected her experience online.
‘Now my public Snapchat is the wild west of the inter Google web,’ she said.
The cougar revealed she was stunned by one interaction she had with a man over Snapchat, where he has a public account – where strangers can contact you.
‘I just opened this and there was a man with his nude back to me and it is an exhibition of an ingrown hair. He is exclaiming on his Snapchat how painful it is,’ she recounted.
‘I don’t know where I come into this, I don’t know why I have to know this now. But now it’s living rent-free in my mind,’ she said with a shrug.
On her website, Patsy explained that she had a strict upbringing in a Catholic family, and was told she was ‘wicked,’ which left a strong impression on her.
The yoga teacher and transformational coach revealed that one men sent her a picture of his buttocks out of blue on SnapChat
Patsy has fans from all ages that are keen to connect with her and to compliment her on her looks
This led her to develop an eating disorder and to battling depression and suicidal thoughts.
Her path to recovery sparked her interest in personal growth, and she also decided as a young person to remain single and only have a series of relationships in her life rather than a long-term one.
On her TikTok profile, the 52-year-old has collected several fans who send her encouragements and keep complimenting her on her looks.
‘I love cougars,’ one said.
‘What’s your Snap?’ another asked, eager to connect with Patsy.
‘Go girl,’ another said, while one commented: ‘ You are gorgeous! Your hair is so beautiful.’
One simply wrote: ‘You’re flawless.’