The ex-boyfriend of disgraced supply teacher Kandice Barber has revealed how their relationship ended over her sexual demands, declaring ‘It was too excessive’.
Barber, 35, was convicted on one count of causing or inciting a child aged under 16 to engage in a sexual act after becoming involved with a pupil at the school where she worked. She was cleared of two other counts of the same charge.
The teacher was found to have taken the underage boy to a field, kissed him on the neck next to a bale of hay and whispered, ‘What do you want to do now?’ before having full intercourse with him.
At a trial last year, Barber was convicted of sending a topless picture of herself to the boy and a video in which she was pleasuring herself with a sex toy.
Speaking exclusively to MailOnline, the former partner, who didn’t want to be named, said details that were revealed during the two trials led him to draw parallels with Barber’s sexual conduct during their time together.
Kandice Barber and her ex-partner cuddle up at a music festival in happier times in their relationship. The ex-boyfriend said he couldn’t keep up with her ‘excessive’ sexual demands
Barber, 35, (seen left arriving at court and right posing for the camera) was today convicted of one count of causing or inciting a child aged under 16 to engage in a sexual act
Costume fan Barber dressed up as a Ghostbuster alongside Wolverine-donning ex-boyfriend during their two-year relationship together, before they separated over her sexual needs
He said: ‘When I heard about the video and picture she’d sent this lad and where they had sexual contact, it reminded me of our relationship. I thought that sounds like Kandice.
‘That was the sort of stuff she was into and it didn’t surprise me at all but what shocked me was that she did it with a kid. I can’t believe how stupid she’s been.’
Barber’s ex says she also did modelling work, looking demure for the camera in this photo
He met Barber on dating site Plenty of Fish, claiming that their relationship was dominated by her ‘huge sex drive’ with her demanding sex up to six times per day, often in unusual places.
He recalled: ‘She liked doing it outside, sometimes in the car, the garden or in woods. We’d be driving somewhere, and she’d say, ‘pull over, I’m feeling horny.’ It just got too much for me. Everyone has got their personal needs and that sort of stuff got her excited but by the end of it I couldn’t be bothered, I’d just had enough. It was too excessive.’
He added: ‘Kandice is a wonderful girl, a great mother and overall, very law abiding. During our time together she never got so much as a parking ticket. But when it came to sex, she was just incredibly frisky and that’s what got her into all this trouble.’
He revealed that Barber was an avid pole dancer who regularly performed for him in the garage of her home in Kent, where she lived at the time and had erected a permanent pole, wearing skimpy clothing.
He recalled: ‘Kandice said she pole danced for fitness reasons but there was always more to it. She’d wear hot pants and a sexy bra when she would do it and we’d often end up making love afterwards.
The ‘frisky’ supply teacher at a party where she dressed as Amy Winehouse. Her ex said their relationship was dominated by her ‘huge sex drive’ with her demanding it six times a day
The pair cuddle up in a bar before their relationship soured. The ex said: ‘We’d be driving somewhere, and she’d say, ‘pull over, I’m feeling horny.’ It just got too much for me.’
Rumours of an affair between Barber and the boy circulated among pupils after she sent him topless pictures of herself. The school alerted police and Barber was arrested on March 12
‘Sometimes she’d have her friends over and they’d put on a show. They were all very sexy girls and I used to quite enjoy that.’
The former boyfriend, who was with Barber for almost two years, revealed that the final nail in the coffin to their relationship came after he discovered on her mobile phone, sexy pictures and videos that she had taken of herself.
In the images, she was posing suggestively either naked or wearing skimpy clothing and in one video, she was pleasuring herself with a sex toy.
He confronted her and she admitted to sending them to other men and also confessed to cheating on him with somebody she met at the gym, prompting him to end their two-year relationship.
He said: ‘I was really angry and hurt. Our relationship was already struggling but when she confessed to what she had been getting up to, I knew we would not be able to carry on.
‘We actually parted on quite good terms, but I was relieved that it was all over. I found Kandice a bit freaky when it came to sex and that actually put me off her.’
Barber’s delivery driver husband Daniel is seen accompanying his wife of four years to court during her three-week hearing at Aylesbury Crown Court, Buckinghamshire
Barber (pictured with Daniel) always denied an affair with the boy behind Daniel’s back and said that he had been making up the story to his friends. The jury didn’t believe her
Family sources told MailOnline that Barber and Daniel (pictured on their wedding day in 2016) were determined to make their marriage work ‘whatever’ the outcome of her trial