A 22-year-old preschool worker revealed how she has been showered with $100,000 in designer presents, five-star vacations and cash gifts from wealthy sugar daddies almost 40 years her senior.
Breanna Lee, from Waukesha, Wisconsin, signed up to sugar baby website Seeking Arrangement as a ‘joke’ when she was 18 years old. The website allows wealthy men to match with younger women who want to be showered with gifts.
Breanna has since had ‘arrangements’ with four sugar daddies who have paid for her bills, taken her on luxury vacations and given her enough money to pay off her student loans.
The 22-year-old, who only sees one man at a time, is currently in an ‘exclusive arrangement’ with a businessman in his 40s. The exclusivity means she does not have another sugar daddy but does not consider it to be a normal relationship.
Sugar baby: Breanna Lee, 22, from Waukesha, Wisconsin, signed up to sugar baby website Seeking Arrangement as a ‘joke’ when she was 18 years old. The website allows wealthy men to match with younger women who want to be showered with gifts
Comfortable life: Breanna has since had ‘arrangements’ with four sugar daddies who have paid for her bills, taken her on luxury vacations and given her enough money to pay off her student loans. Pictured, on a luxury hotel visit with her sugar daddy
Exploring: Breanna on a day out with one of her sugar daddies. While Brenna is having sex with her current sugar daddy, she said being intimate is not expected as part of an arrangement
The pair have had sex but Breanna insists sex is not part of the sugar baby arrangement as a rule.
‘Being a sugar baby and being a prostitute are very different things,’ she explained. ‘I’m not having sex for money. I have a normal 9-5 job, so I don’t view “sugaring” as work. I just see it as a chance for fun and pleasure.
‘Currently, I am in a sexual relationship with a man I met on Seeking Arrangement, but we are keeping it exclusive, just him and I. When I’m with him, I’m not working.
‘So far, I have been given at least $48,000 by way of paying bills alone, then around another $50,000 in gifts.
‘It’s like my social and romantic life just happens to come with these exclusive and expensive gifts, which a wealthy boyfriend I met another way might’ve funded anyway.’
Breanna, who coaches a cheerleading squad in her spare time, signed up to Seeking Arrangement while she was studying dental assistance and business management at college.
Breanna, who coaches a cheerleading squad in her spare time, signed up to Seeking Arrangement while she was studying dental assistance and business management at college
Gifts: Breanna was given this Louis Vuitton bag worth $3,100 as a Christmas present from her sugar daddy. She did not reveal his identity but said he is a businessman in his 40s
Designer goods: Breanna was gifted the Versace watch by one of her sugar daddies
‘About a year later, I met a guy on there and we hit it off right away,’ she said. ‘He was 39 years older than me. I initially wasn’t comfortable meeting up with anyone, but we got along really well and talked on Skype so it felt safer.
‘We went out to dinner at the Sister Hotel in Milwaukee, which is a high-end place, and made me realise, “Oh, this isn’t a bad thing”. In fact, it wasn’t all that different from a normal date.’
Breanna ended up in an 18-month relationship with the wealthy suitor, although it remained strictly platonic.
‘It was more that he needed companionship than anything else,’ she continued. ‘We travelled a lot, liked doing the same things and always had loads to talk about. It was never boring.
Starting out: Breanna had an 18-month arrangement with the first sugar daddy she met
Active lifestyle: Breanna enjoys getting outdoors with her sugar daddy. Pictured, on a hike
Making a connection: Breanna (pictured) had casual arrangements with two other men before meeting her current sugar daddy, who is 20 years older than her
Soaking up the sun: Breanna stays in penthouse suites when she travels with her sugar daddy
‘He had a boat so we would go fishing and go out on the water together. It was a great time.’
The relationship ended in spring 2018 and Breanna had casual arrangements with two other men before meeting her current sugar daddy, who is 20 years older than her.
She said: ‘We see each about once every week for dinner dates, though we had to put everything on hold for a few months due to lockdown restrictions. We’d still message and FaceTime, though.
‘Now, every time I see him, he gives me a gift or money. He helps pay for my rent and car insurance, so I don’t have the burden of all these bills. He takes care of them.
‘When we travel, we usually stay in penthouse suites, we go to these beautiful dinners – it’s very luxurious.
Exclusive: Breanna has one sugar daddy and doesn’t have an arrangement with anyone else
Full-time job: Breanna works in a preschool and coaches a cheerleading squad in her spare time. She said she does not see ‘sugaring’ as a second job because it is for pleasure
Although she does not see herself ever forming a more serious relationship with a sugar daddy, she believes they have helped her decide on the traits she would one day like to find in a husband
‘For Christmas, he even got me a new Louis Vuitton bag worth $3,100. We’re having a nice relationship, without being serious.’
While her arrangement is casual, Breanna will not date more than one man at a time, preferring the closeness that develops over time from monogamy.
And, although she does not see herself ever forming a more serious relationship with a sugar daddy, she believes they have helped her decide on the traits she would one day like to find in a husband.
She said: ‘I’m just not ready for a real relationship yet. I’m working on myself first.
‘When I do hit that point and I decide I want to start settling down, I think my sugar daddy and I will have to go our separate ways. I won’t tell guys in the future about my past as a sugar baby.
‘I’ve formed really great connections with the people I’ve met, and I can pick out qualities from these men that I would like to see in a future husband.
Two-way street: Breanna believes sugar daddies benefit from using the site, as they are seeking the flexibility of a no-strings relationship, as well as the prestige of being seen with a younger, glamorous woman
Romantic views: Breanna gets to travel and explore with her sugar daddies
View from the top! A photo taken from a beauty spot while travelling with her sugar daddy
‘I want someone funny, who I can easily get along with, wants the same things I do and shares similar interests, like fishing and hiking. But I’m not expecting my future husband to pay for anything, by any means.’
Breanna believes sugar daddies benefit from using the site, as they are seeking the flexibility of a no-strings relationship, as well as the prestige of being seen with a younger, glamorous woman.
She said: ‘Every guy I’ve spoken to tells me that they don’t have to settle down because they’re so busy with work. They don’t have to tell their families or kids either, if they have them, as it’s all very discreet.
‘It’s not like they have to introduce you as their new girlfriend and being seen with a younger girl is definitely good for their image, too.’
Breanna, who has not confided in many of her friends about her unconventional dating life, is now keen to dispel some of the stigma attached to the world of sugar daddies and babies.
She said: ‘Everyone who’ve I’ve talked to about it – without letting on that’s what I do – has said they view it as prostitution, but I don’t view it that way at all.
‘You can look at anything and jump to conclusions without knowing the real story, and that’s what people do with this – they make assumptions without knowing anything about it.’