Harry Styles made history this month as Vogue‘s first ever solo male cover star in the magazine’s 127-year history – but the achievement took a back seat to the controversy surrounding the ruffly blue dress he sported on the front of the publication, and the other skirts and gowns he donned for his shoot inside its pages.
Following the magazine’s release, right-wing commentator Candace Owens blasted the gender-neutral shoot, warning that it represents the ‘steady feminization of our men’, while calling for a return of ‘manly’ guys.
Ben Shapiro, another right-wing commentator, agreed with Owens, writing on Twitter: ‘The POINT of Styles doing this photo shoot is to feminize masculinity.’
Further criticism poured in on both sides of the Atlantic, with DailyMail.com’s editor-at-large Piers Morgan saying the shoot was ‘all a bit weird’, prompting others to leap to Harry’s defense, with actress Olivia Wilde branding Owens ‘pathetic’.
So, do people really care if a guy wears a dress, and more crucially – does it really make you less of a man?
Recreation: Two brave men, including DailyMailTV’s AJ Cataldi (left), stepped out onto the streets of New York City in dresses in order to see how they felt about wearing the kind of look modeled by Harry Styles on the cover of Vogue (right)
Nothing to see here! AJ found that most people walked past him without so much as shooting an inquiring stare in his direction, and many were totally unfazed to see a man walking around in a dress
Confusion: His blue ASOS ball gown, which was inspired by the dress worn by Harry, 26, on his Vogue cover, attracted a few questioning looks, but for the most part, people didn’t seem surprised to see a man walking around in a dress
‘Empowered’: Despite attracting some stares, AJ said that he felt emboldened by his dress and Desigual blazer look, noting that he felt as though he was proving to members of the public that men can wear whatever they want and still be ‘normal’
AJ CATALDI, SENIOR PRODUCTION SUPERVISOR AT DAILYMAILTV
Personally, I am all for men wearing dresses in public. I think in today’s society, people are becoming increasingly influenced by what they see on magazine covers, Instagram, Twitter, and all other forms of social media, and guys adding dresses into their daily wardrobes is something we are seeing more and more.
Living in New York City, it’s certainly something that I have witness becoming more common; whether they are male, female, or non-binary, most people in the Big Apple dress however they want, for the most part. The culture here in in the city is more open to playing around with fashion and gender identity, and the truth is ‘we’re all born naked and the rest is drag’, as RuPaul would say.
I myself haven’t ever chosen to wear a gown in everyday life before – although I did wear a dress out in public one Halloween, when I dressed up as Katy Perry in a grey sequined design, with a blue and black wig and sparkly heels. I certainly wouldn’t wear the heels again, and the outfit I chose was far more revealing than the blue Harry-inspired dress I wore today, but it didn’t put me off the concept of guys ‘dress’-ing up at all.
My biggest concern before I changed out of my jeans and T-shirt, and slipped on the tulle number I was given to model was that the design wouldn’t fit properly. Despite more and more men wearing dresses these days, they still aren’t really tailored to a more masculine physique.
Once I got it on however, I was pretty surprised. Despite some gaping in the chest area, the fit wasn’t bad, and adding a tuxedo jacket over the top made it look slightly less in-your-face. Even more surprising was the number of compliments I received while walking around the office; more than one person said the dress was incredibly flattering, and several colleagues said I looked better than ever.
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I stepped out onto the street, but being a born-and-bred New Yorker, I was fairly certain that my outfit wouldn’t cause too much of a stir; people in this city are accustomed to seeing far stranger sights than a man strolling along the sidewalk in a ballgown.
I wasn’t worried about people staring, in fact I encouraged it. I wanted to see what people thought about my choice of outfit, and whether I really was going to cause the outrage and upset that we saw on social media in response to Harry’s Vogue shoot.
As it turned out, I got even less attention than I had been expecting. Other than the occasional double take from passersby, nobody really seemed concerned or even surprised by the dress, and most people walked straight past me without giving my outfit so much as a glance.
Hello? AJ said that he was surprised by just how little people seemed to care about his look, and admitted that he actually tried to catch the attention of those around him at one point, just to see if he could elicit some kind of reaction
Moving on: ‘Candace Owens may have found some like-minded critics on social media, but here in New York, it seems like those people are very much in the minority,’ AJ said of the right-wing commentator’s criticism of Harry’s Vogue shoot
Future: AJ added that he was surprised how many people in the Daily Mail offices actually complimented his dress, with some even going as far as to point out how flattering the style was on him
Wardrobe addition: ‘For my part, I would absolutely consider wearing a dress like that again, maybe for a party of some sort. It gave me confidence to be totally honest,’ AJ said
When people did stare I felt like it gave me the opportunity to prove that because I was in a dress, and I am a man, what I choose to wear doesn’t define my gender in its entirety. I felt the more people that looked at me, the more people I could show that gender isn’t based off what kind of clothes you have on your back.
All in all, I didn’t feel any different than if I was in my everyday attire of jeans and a sweater. If anything, I felt uplifted by the idea of wearing a dress in public. It gave me a chance to show people that what I wear doesn’t define my gender, sexuality, or masculinity.
The experience showed me that – at least here in New York – people aren’t concerned with what you wear. At one point while out and about, I passed two guys doing a photoshoot in the middle of the street wearing mini skirts and high heels, and twirling umbrellas in the air. Most people strolled right on by without flashing so much as a curious look in their direction, and I think that just goes to show that the city is the ideal place for anyone and everyone to experiment with their look.
Candace Owens may have found some like-minded critics on social media, but here in New York, it seems like those people are very much in the minority. I think that calling Harry out is immature, and those people are clearly standing on the wrong side of history, particularly when you consider how easy my experience was.
The issue with that is, when public figures say something and speak out against societal progression, people listen. That’s the message that is being sent to those who feel gender can be defined by what you wear, and that clothing is only male and female.
Listen, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but when you have a massive following I think you need to have to take some responsibility in the message you create. Our society is changing, and going against moving forward with gender norms will only isolate and polarize your audience moving forward as well.
For my part, I would absolutely consider wearing a dress like that again, maybe for a party of some sort. It gave me confidence to be totally honest.
I don’t think the question is about normalizing dresses men, I think the bigger question is taking out the societal stigma that gender has specific clothing choices, however someone chooses to dress should not be associated with the gender they identify with. I think that people should wear whatever they feel comfortable with and confident in.
Over-the-top: Commercial strategy director Chaz Meabon, from Queens, wore a slightly more flamboyant design by Apotts (left), which was inspired by a shot from inside Harry’s Vogue issue (right)
Anyone care? Chaz took a ride on the subway in his orange gown, and said that few people seemed to care that he was wearing such a vibrant ensemble
Hmmm? Unlike AJ, Chaz’s voluminous dress did prompt more stares and questioning looks, and he admitted that a few people he walked past seemed ‘disgusted’ by the sight of a man wearing a dress
Compliments: ‘But there were also some who told me, “I love your dress,” and seemed genuinely excited to see a guy rocking such a bold look,’ Chaz revealed
CHAZ MEABON, COMMERCIAL STRATEGY DIRECTOR
If you look back at history, some of the articles of clothing that kings, emperors, etc were wearing definitely resembled modern day dresses, so if a man wakes up and feels like picking out a dress and throwing it on to take a stroll down the street or go to brunch, let him be.
I think it’s awful that anyone can project their opinion on the ‘norms’ or definition of a ‘man/masculine’ on society.
We are all individuals and are entitled to our own views and opinions. Nobody should feel that they have a right to tell me what I can do – that’s the motto I live by.
If you don’t like my style, personality, or just me, then that’s your issue. My personal message for Harry is, ‘Thank you for paving the way for every individual who was nervous to be themselves in public.’
Unlike AJ, I have actually worn a dress in public before, and the thought of people staring at me has never been something that I’ve allowed to put me off wearing whatever I want to wear. I hate to blend in and get lost in a crowd, especially in New York City, and I ensure I stand out in any way I can, whether it’s with a dress, or with my larger than life personality.
Bold: The community strategy director admitted that he likes attracting attention, and he wasn’t deterred by the fact that people were staring at him as he walked around Manhattan’s Union Square
Important: ‘At the end of the day, the dress is a great conversation starter – and this is a conversation that we should be having. If a guy wants to wear a gown, what’s to stop him? How does it negatively impact anyone else?’ he said
Easy breezy: Chaz’s eye-catching gown seemed to draw stares for all kinds of reasons, however he pointed out that New Yorkers are used to seeing more outlandish fashions being modeled in the city
Hitting back: ‘I think it’s awful that anyone can project their opinion on the ‘norms’ or definition of a ‘man/masculine’ on society,’ Chaz said of the criticism of Harry’s Vogue shoot
The dress that I wore today was certainly eye-catching, and it was interesting to see people’s very different reactions. While AJ’s dress was a bit more subtle, and didn’t really elicit too many stares, the gown that I had on was very hard to miss, and that meant more people ended up staring. But not everyone was staring because they didn’t like the look.
Sure, there were some perplexed and confused looks, and there were some onlookers who couldn’t hide how disgusted they were to see a man wearing such a flamboyant dress.
But there were also some who told me, ‘I love your dress,’ and seemed genuinely excited to see a guy rocking such a bold look.
People staring is never going to stop me from wearing or doing what I want, and in this case I actually enjoyed seeing everyone’s different reactions. At the end of the day, the dress is a great conversation starter – and this is a conversation that we should be having. If a guy wants to wear a gown, what’s to stop him? How does it negatively impact anyone else?
Harry wearing a dress on the cover of Vogue is just the beginning, and I will gladly support him by rocking my own versions on my Instagram grid in the future.
The Harry Styles’ Vogue photoshoot controversy
Harry Styles Vogue cover shoot caused outrage among right-wing commentators.
Candace Owens took umbrage to the singer’s shoot on Saturday, writing: ‘There is no society that can survive without strong men … bring back manly men.’
She called the photos a ‘steady feminization of our men’ in a thread of tweets on Monday morning.
She later doubled-down after her tweet went viral.
‘Since I’m trending I’d like to clarify what I meant when I said ‘bring back manly men,’ she wrote in response to the backlash Monday. ‘I meant: Bring back manly men.
Candace Owens has doubled down on her criticism of Harry Styles, renewing her calls to ‘bring back manly men’ after she slammed the former One Direction star for wearing a dress on the cover of Vogue over the weekend
‘Terms like ‘toxic masculinity’, were created by toxic females. Real women don’t do fake feminism,’ she continued. ‘Sorry I’m not sorry.’
Many hit back at Owens, with Olivia Wilde branding her ‘pathetic’.
Ben Shapiro, another US-based right-wing commentator, agreed with Owens, writing on Twitter: ‘The POINT of Styles doing this photo shoot is to feminize masculinity.
‘Otherwise why would it be headline-worthy for Styles to don a dress?’
He went on to say: ‘Pretending that men dressing like women does not feminize men is ridiculous, particularly coming from the same people who are celebrating Styles BECAUSE he is feminising masculinity.
Piers Morgan branded the dress ‘weird’ during a debate segment on Good Morning Britain following Owens’ comments.
‘I’m not saying I’m against it, I’m not saying I’m for it, I’m just saying it’s all a bit weird,’ the journalist said.
His co-host Susanna Reid objected that women could wear trousers, Morgan added: ‘But Harry Styles looks weird here, it’s all a bit weird. He’s not going to go out for dinner like this.’
Piers continued: ‘He’s pushing the boundaries of fashion. The question is, some women say he looks great – how many women would like it if their husband turned up for dinner in a dress? That’s the question.’